What is the first thing one should do when faced with a person who has cut the veins or at least believed to have cut the veins?
That question put it in Google and I get thousands of crap. And I think it must be clear what to do in cases like this, because although not an everyday event can be every 15 years, and how does one react to the course of events take disparate paths .
For example, I have a friend who was given the "boyfriend kicked" in the office of his father with veins cut, she threw him out with a fresh wind, shouting that he could think how to spot the carpet and that was going to die out.
Now, if you become sensitized to the situation, here are some recommendations that may help. Read a Manual if you will, I hope it useful.
First
When a "suicide" is asking for help .. is because I really DO NOT want to die, so we call it "fake suicide (henceforth FS). And the fact that he cut the veins is "The Ultimate Drama Queen." The most important thing to face situation is that the FS will not die ... around the horn is great. URGENT therefore is independent of how close is the FS or for you.
Second
assess the level of damage . Usually the "dramita" comes with pills or alcohol intake, thus cutting the wrists or ankles not "clean" so as to avoid panic when he saw the wound or bloodshed around .
Third
Now what do I do? If / FS and made the intake pills must make the effort to keep alive a person, possibly enough to ask "what's wrong?" FS to keep talking. Pay no attention to the triggers, it was probably a stupid or dumb drama, what matters is the chronological account of events. You must calculate the time between when he took the pills to see how much time you have to bring that person to a hospital before he can no longer walk. Upload deadweight someone is IMPOSSIBLE. As you listen and calculates MUST do everything possible to stop or bleeding. If this gushing ... the thing is ugly with sock knot, cord or similar, between the wound and the heart. If it goes as well, put some fabric in the wound and press (if you wear clothes, do not use your own ... USE THE FS).
Fourth
" contingencies? If he called you on 131 and told they could not go, you have to call 133, you have two options:
- Hang up and call again, lie and say it was a household accident.
- send them to hell and threatened to sue, the media, "I'm recording this conversation" and what comes to mind.
If nothing follows, leave the house, ask for help someone with a vehicle that is not very scrupulous. If none of the above works, put FS clothing that hides the blood stains and take a taxi, pay the driver with an object of the FS, watch, cell phone or whatever ... not spend $ on itself because it is no return. Try to take the FS card.
Fifth
Once FS is being cared for home, locate a relative or related to take over the small piece, remember, you should not get involved too, is cold and calculating . If the post or health center asked for the facts ... you have no idea, only he understood that took pills or alcohol, as appropriate. Suicide in Chile is ILLEGAL, do not talk more than necessary. Try your best not to be alone, then you can collect medical attention.
Sixth :
Responsibilities. If I could not find anyone to relieve him, go through with the horn, wait until you are discharged and do not have to pay ... does not pay .. FONASA pay. DO NOT TAKE YOUR HOME TO FS. On the way back but keep silent face of anger, if FS starts to apologize ... shut up .. FS is okay to feel guilty, because he has given you one of the worst memories of his life.
not establish a friendly relationship with FS, and if they pass the years and find it there, immediately ask for wounds and remind the "tallit", again, you gave one of the worst memories of his life.
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